I'm not a big risk taker, I like having a good idea about how things are going to. Saturday we have a golf tournament we have signed up and paid for. We are playing in this with another couple. When B signed us up he said he would get some one else to golf for me if I didn't think I was going to be able to. Well apparently he only had 1 person in mind to ask. During this past week, that friendship has fizzled. Along with the friendship, so has my stomach. I was doing great for a few days, but for the last couple I'm feeling sick again. We both really want me to golf in this tournament, but we also don't want me (or anyone else) to be miserable all day. B keeps telling me he needs to know, but really, how am I supposed to know how I'm going to be feeling in 3 days? Do I just take the chance that I will feel ok again, or do I have him find someone else to golf and just give it up? I'm gonna hate missing out if I feel fine, not to mention feel bad ditching the other wife, but is it worth risking having a horrible time because I feel like crap?
What would you do?