30 Days Of Thankful - Day 30

Well, I didn't do as well as I thought I would at posting daily, but today, that is what I'm going to be thankful for.  I am thankful that I am not so caught up in social media that I feel the need to post here or on FB every day.  I do have a twitter account, but pretty much never use it.

Today I also want to share a few of the things Lillian is doing that I just love!

• She says "silly goofy" instead of "silly goose"
• If I lay down with her at night she cuddles right up and puts her arm up on my shoulder
• The way she talks to my belly and hugs it
• The stories she tells are amazing
• Her imagination can turn a simple bath basket into 5 different things in a matter of minutes
• And if we let her, not one branch on the Christmas tree would be lacking an ornament.

A sweet Reminder

Double Digits!

That's right, the tickers are down to double digits now!  99 Days!  14 Weeks!!  3 Months!!!

So many feelings about those numbers: excited, nervous, anxious, and there's another one that I just don't know what to call it.

I'm so excited to have a little baby girl to hold and care for again.

I'm extremely nervous about how Lillian is going to react to me having to give so much time and attention to some one else.

I'm anxious to get the house, particularly her bedroom done.

And this other feeling comes at night when it's time for Lillian to go to bed.  It's that overwhelming feeling of love I get in my heart that almost hurts and makes me cry.  It's not a sad cry, but it's certainly not a happy cry either.  I used to get it when she was first born too.  Like a separation anxiety or something.  I've been trying so hard to let B do bed time cause he will have to when the baby arrives and to let him be the one to go to her when she wakes up.  But it's hard.  I want to be there for her, but I know that I won't always be able to be there once the baby gets here and I don't want her to resent her sister for that so I'm trying to back off now.  But it hurts :(

A Quickie Today

Today's post is going to be short and sweet for 2 reasons.

1. The post I'm about to link to is soooo true! Only Lillian started at 2 1/2.
2. I'm starving already and want my damn breakfast!

So here you have it. Top 10 Reasons Why 3 is Worse Than 2!

PS - It's 50/50 on behavior with Lillian 50% of the time she's an amazing angel and the other 50% of the time she is a terror, there is no in between!

Didn't Take Long!

For me to fall off the "blog a day" bandwagon!  I wish I had a great excuse, but I don't have a great one, just lots of little ones.  Mostly, I just haven't felt like it.  I've had lots running through my head, but I'm not sure I want any of it out there to be found.

As for the 30 Days of Thankful, I have thought about it every day.  Some days I've even posted on FB.  I've been thankful for being able to meet my brother and his family, thankful to have a wonderful loving husband at home waiting for me, thankful that my little girl is an AWESOME traveler!  And more recently thankful to have clothes on my back, shoes on my feet and a warm place to lay my head.  All too often we forget about those little ones out there that don't have that.

Yesterday after realizing BRU was having a great 8hr sale online for bedding we decided on a set!!!  Well actually Lillian decided for us because we just couldn't.  Here's what we got...

And we got it for $80 off!!!  Granted I had to order 3 accessories with it, but I would have bought them anyway, so why not get the $80 off right?  Plus now I can tell people what to get us for Christmas!

I hope everyone is well!

30 Days of Thankful - Day 9

I am thankful for those little moments that make you smile.

This morning on the way to the sitter I asked Lillian what she wanted for Christmas.  This is the conversation that followed:

Lillian: I'm getting a car!
Me: Mommy can't even get a car.
Lillian: I want a motorcycle then!

I hate to think about what she's going to ask for when she's 16!

It's these little moments though that you can't help buy smile and be reminded of the innocence in the world.  Lillian has little conversations all the time that just amaze me!

And more with Lillian is that her potty training is going pretty well.  I know it sounds like the same thing over and over and it feels like it is most the time, but I take the little victories when I can.  This weekend she went to the bathroom and pooped all by herself, on the big potty, while I was switching wash!  Any potty training parent knows that then doing something like that WITHOUT HELP is a huge step!

And because I haven't posted a pic of my belly in a while, here's this weeks and a comparison...

19 Weeks

23 weeks

23 Weeks w Lillian

  I have to say that although to me my ass currently feels huge, I don't think it's as huge as it was with Lillian at this point.





 

30 Days of Thankful - Day 8

I'm thankful for upcoming adventures! Thursday night Lillian and I leave with my father to go meet my half brother for the first time!  I have known about my brother for a long time, he is 5 years younger than me.  My father has also never met him, so this could be a very interesting trip.  I think we are all a little nervous and excited about this trip.  I think what I'm most nervous about though is riding in the car with my father for 12 hours!  I don't think we've ever spent that much time in the same house together, let alone in a car, just the two of us.  Well Lilli will be there too, but you get what I'm saying.  On the way there we will be driving over night and since Lilli will be with us he understands and suggests that I sleep while I can.  We will be driving home Sunday during the day though so we'll see how things go I guess.

In other news I'm 23 weeks today!  Seems hard to believe, only 4 weeks until the 3rd trimester!  It amazes me that she will be starting to swallow this week so the hiccups will be beginning.  It still seems a little odd to me how little I feel her moving, but I do feel her moving for a few minutes at least twice a day.  Mostly at night when we are settling down for bed and also in the morning on my way to work or when I first get there.  I can't wait until I can start to see my belly move!

I think we have decided on a first name!  I'm not yet sure if I want to share it.  We don't plan on sharing it with the family until she arrives and I'm not sure I want to chance it getting out there.

30 Days of Thankful - Days 5, 6 & 7

Yes I know I promised to do 30 days and I have posted every day on Facebook what I'm thankful for.

Day 5: Very thankful for a Date Night with my hubby. As much as I hate leaving Lillian, it was some much needed time for adult conversation. The next day I was feeling emotionally better than I have felt in weeks and my patience limit seemed to be a little higher too!

Day 6: The Sunshine! Living in NY you have to be thankful for all the Sunshine you can get this time of year. While we didn't go out and enjoy it, it did keep me motivated to get some house cleaning and laundry done. Sunshine gives you energy!

Day 7: Today I am thankful for change. Change can be scary, but it happens all the time. Some times it's quick and other times it happens over a long time. The thing is, most of the time change is for the better. Right now I am most thankful for the changes that have happened over time in B, myself and our relationship.

30 Day of Thankful - Day 4

Today hasn't been so easy to decide on what I am going to remind myself of what I'm thankful for. Yesterday was a very emotional and frustrating day. But this morning as I was getting around for the day and reflecting on yesterday, I knew exactly what to be thankful for... My friends and their support.

Today I want to be thankful for all my friends, the friends that live in my computer, the friends that live near by and the friends that live across the country.  I'm thankful for their support and willingness to support me in my times of ups and downs.  For being there when I'm right and when I'm wrong, and for not judging me for the mistakes I've made.

And I'm extra thankful for the ones that are there when there is really nothing they can say or do to change the situation or how I'm feeling, but they try anyway.  I may seem hopeless at the time, but all the kind words of encouragement really pull me through.

30 Days of Thankful - Day 2 and 3

So it hit me this morning that I started this a day behind, surprised? I didn't think so!  So, today I'm going to do 2 and be caught up.

The first thing I'm going to be thankful for is my home.  More specifically, my home that has a working furnace again!  We went a week without a working furnace.  Thankfully we have a space heater that did a great job of keeping us warm.  Especially considering that the day the furnace quit working, this is what the house looked like:

The second thing I'm thankful for today is my job.  This is mostly because at this moment I need to remind myself I need to be thankful for this.  I could have a toddler and a baby on the way and be trying to live on a laborer's pay.  I got to work this morning to find that a worker threw away my samples I need for testing.  Partially my fault because I am behind on submitting the samples for testing, but there are several reasons not to throw away samples!  For Heaven's sake we don't even throw away samples for years after they have been tested!  She said "They were in the way."  Ugh.  But I am grateful to be hear and have to deal with this since it could be a lot worse than just needing to find samples.

Borrowing an Idea

Well I guess really it's more like stealing since I can't really give it back.  Ashley over at More Than Dog Children is doing a 30 Days of Thankful and I think it's a great idea and just what I need right now. 

Today I'm thankful for my little girl, who isn't so little any more!  She had her 2.5 year well child visit last week and when the receptionist said "we won't need to see her again until she's 3" it hit me that it's only 6 months away!  For so long 3 has seemed like this number way off in the distance and now it seems like it's speeding at me like a bullet.  But my big girl is healthy and very smart according to the Doctor.  And she amazed the crap out of me when she came to me with her sweatshirt zipped the other day.  Yes, my 2.5 year old started the zipper herself for the first time!  Potty training is going fairly well.  It's taking a lot longer than I thought it would, but I appreciate the good days and try to forget the bad days.

Not much in the way of a pregnancy update.  I'm 22 weeks now, so hopefully on 16 or so more to go, but I'll figure on 19 and try not to get my hopes up too high.  I'm getting very frustrated with my weight gain and I'm considering giving up trying to watch what I eat.  What's the point of depriving myself of comforts when it's not doing me much good anyway?  Hopefully this last week of trying will give me confidence.

I'm feeling baby girl move more and more and that's comforting.  I can't wait for Lillian to be able to feel it.  I love that she rubs and kisses my belly.  And it's just too cute when she looks in my belly button and says "yup, she's still in there."