Better known as arguments. I think it's about time B and I have one because we've been increasingly short with one another and it normally happens because something irritates us, but we don't get a chance to talk about it, so then we get short and that irritates the other, then they get short and it just keeps building until we pretty much don't even remember what the first thing was.
Our problem is that Lillian thinks she needs to be part of every conversation. Even if she's off playing by herself she's listening, and most times what we need to talk about involves her. We follow the "don't argue or discuss punishment in front of the kids" policy, as much as possible.
There is just so much I need to talk about with him and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna cry (I'm still very emotional) and that bothers Lillian. Last time it happened she yelled at him and that's not good.
So when and how do you solve problems with you significant other???
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